This spell will help create empathy and understanding during a disagreement between yourself and someone else. Get two different-colored candles. It's important that they melt into a puddle, so birthday, chime, or beeswax candles are best. One candle represents you, and the other represents the person in question.

Rub a rose quartz over the surface of each candle, then place them side by side in small holders on wax paper, preferably so they're touching. As you light the candle representing you, state your position out loud. Do the same with the other candle, stating the opposing opinion (even if it makes you mad!). Allow the candles to safely burn and melt together. When a puddle of wax has formed, blow them out. Let the wax dry. Later, pry it up and look at how the colors have mixed together. Keep this visual amulet someplace where you can see it until the problem has gone away.