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Spell to Become Your Own Best Friend

November 15, 2018 by Thuri Calafia
Color of the day:  Turquoise
Incense of the day:  Jasmine
 
For this spell, you will need a pillar candle in your favorite color and a taper candle in a healing color (it's okay if they're the same color). Take some time to decide what it is that you have to offer a friendship and what you most need from a friendship. Chances are they're the same, or very similar, and are along the lines of nurturing.

Carve the pillar with symbols of your strongest needs (for example, a dollar sign for money or a heart for love or physical health). Then take the taper and light it, letting some melted wax form. Hold the healing taper candle over the pillar, and let the healing-color wax fill in the "holes" in your spirit. Say:

"As the moon grows, let my light
and my love for myself grow.
I AM my own best friend."

Follow up by gifting yourself with a favorite cookie and drink for cakes and wine, followed by a "date"-a favorite dinner and movie perhaps. Focus on treating yourself like a best friend and let the magic happen!
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About Thuri Calafia
Thuri Calafia (Portland, OR) is an ordained Wiccan minister and High Priestess who has been teaching the Wiccan path for over thirty years. The founder of the Circles system and the Circles School of Witchcraft and Wicca, she is actively involved in her local community and teaches workshops, ...
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